Sunday, August 30, 2009

Heart Warming!

Hey all this was a forward I recieved. Instead of it being a forward which was automatically deleted I decided to put it up on my blog where I know it will be read. What a wonderful story. It shows that there's nothing more important than being humane! Please read it and leave your comments! :-)

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At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.

Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.

Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:

Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again..

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!

Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.

B y the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball . the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!

Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Care

Just a thought. When we as people care so sincerely for those who are near and dear to us (our friends and family), why is the same care not extended onto other things. Below are a few examples:

People really care about their children however they do not necessary care about the environment or about creating a sustainable future for the next and subsequent generations.

Another example is animal lovers not being vegetarians? This has always stumped me. If you love animals how can you want to eat one, something that is living and breathing? There is the argument that plants and such are alive and have micro-organisms on them. But the response is that people should try to do the least possible damage they can. We can counter the effect of us eating plants by planting and caring for the plants.

On a general note, why is it that people care for those who are near and dear and around them and not for those who are obviously underprivileged and in need of help? Its a lot to do with people wanting to give what they get, but its also a lot to do with people not realising that there is more in this world then themselves and their close circle.

So here comes my point. If people just thought outside of the box or self created enclosure and started thinking and acting for the sake of the general good, this world would be a much better place! Whether it be environmental issues, poverty or any of the other crucial issues in the world today, thinking outside of the box and extending care to more than just those you generally do would do a world of good for everyone!

Put yourselves in other people's shoes for a split second and see what you can do to help them! Spread the love with empathy and action! :D

Monday, August 10, 2009

Hair Wash

When there is a movie called Hair Spray why can't I write a blog post called Hair Wash? Lol..

The hair wash routine is all normal, just as any other normal person.

Post the hairwash though when I look at myself in the mirror my hair dripping wet there's only one song:



Then comes the blow drying routine and time for this song: